August 8, 2012
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I just woke up. Got 3 hours of sleep. Her cousin (Sam's best friend) is here. The ex is going back to the hospital tonight. I told him to take flowers. All I know is she hates me and I got the black belt of silence while Matt put Tristan in my arms. I kept trying to tell him and the ex I didn't want to go into the room-I wasn't wanted there. They physically made me go in there.
I did everything I could. I was nice. I was cordial as I was asked to be. I gave her something that belonged to my mom. The way that I was looked at was that I might as well have burned in hell.
I got to see my grandson. I got to hold him. Now I want everyone out of my house and I don't even get that.
I want today to be over. And tomorrow to pretend today didn't even happen. But I did get to hold Tristan once. And see Matt hold him.
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You know what Leo? nothing you can do at this point will make amends - not sure what is going on exactly but when someone had a bitch on, very little fixes it. Just remember her hormones are all over the place and it might get worse before it gets better. However, it WILL get better and she WILL need sitters and oh shucks, but you might be available at a price she likes. Give it time and remember your time with Tristan IS coming:) how could it not since you're the best grandma around:) don't get discouraged right now over her stupidity - you and Tristan will be buds - I didn't even have to look into my crystal ball to know that truth:) love ya and am absolutely thrilled for you:) xxooHUGS and HUGE CONGRATS!!!!!!!
That sounds unbelievably uncomfortable and toxic! I am glad you got to see and hold your grandson. Bet he's a sweetie.
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